Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, if they be events, illnesses or relationships, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere.
If someone hurts me, betrays me, or breaks my heart, I forgave them. For they have helped me learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to who I open my heart to. But since I am NOT God, there comes a time that I can’t easily forgive someone who give so much pain to me. But I will do my best to accept the fact that we are born to love, to be love, to hurt, and to be hurt.
And if someone loves me, I loved them back unconditionally, not only because they love me, but because they are teaching me to love and to open my heart and eyes to things I would have never seen or felt without them.
I made every day count. I appreciate every moment and take from it everything that I possibly can, for I may never be able to experience it again.
I talked to people I has never talked to before, and actually listened. I hold my head up because I have every right to. I always tell myself that I am a great individual and believe in myself, for if I don’t believe in myself, no one else will believe in me either.
I will create my own life and then go out and live with it.
I also learned that I don’t have to change friends if I understandthat my friends already changed. I learned that no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt me every once in a while and I must forgive them for that. I learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance and of course, the same for the true LOVE.
I’ve learned that I can do something in an instant that will give me heartache for life. It’s really taking me a long time before I become the best person I want to be. I learned that I should always leave my loved ones with loving words, not those painful ones because it may be the last time I’ll see them. I learned that I can keep going long and I am responsible for what I do, no matter how I feel. I also learned that either I control my attitude or it controls me. I learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place. I’ve learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score and my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.
|I’ve learned that I can’t make someone fall in love with me.But I can be with someone who can be loved.Because the rest is up to US.|
|I’ve learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back.|
|I’ve learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.|
|I’ve learned that it’s not what I have in my life but who I have in my life that counts|
I DON’T WANNA CHANGE MYSELF FOR THE EXPECTATIONS OF PEOPLE AROUND ME..
I DON’T WANNA ACT LIKE AN INNOCENT PERSON JUST TO SAY I AM GOOD…
WANNA KNOW WHY???
BECAUSE IT’S BETTER TO HATE ME FOR WHO I AM,
THAN TO LOVE ME FOR WHO I PRETEND TO BE.
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Written by: Christine Joyce